Uhm his, if you don't remember, my old account is marilynsdevil. I've got like... ugggggh another prob. I feel happy like on the outside, sometimes. i'm not saying my life is a total tragedy, but i'm always all over the place. like a yoyo, up and down, always causing trouble for myself. I can't even sort myself out, there for i can't even get a bf. I just get randomley emotional, and then start a ruck up with the nearest person. I also feel some of my 'friends' i could have a better relaitonship with but it lawyas messes up. Please could you give me any adivce?
Honestly..it might be that you are focusing on pleasing him to much, or you may be shy in front of anyone present during masturbation. Try having him pleasure you before intercourse, even talking to you. Close your eyes and let your mind go, try not to worry about anything...And above all else, relax... he cares about your org*sm as much as you do..if not more
Yo, it's Ciara here, ty for helping my mate. she has been sooo cut up about this but hates to admit it! Anyways you helped me before, on my old account marilynsdevil! what a coincidence! Your totally awesome
This may be a dumb question, but I want to know what you think anyway. Why is it that it's a lot harder for me to climax when I'm intimately with my boyfriend, than it is when I'm alone? My boyfriend says it's because I'm thinking too much and not relaxing and enjoying the moment... but I have a feeling it could be something else. I am totally sexually attracted to him, so it's not that... but yet, it's so hard to have an org**m... almost impossible... it's really frustrating!! Even if I try masturbating when he's in the room I can't cum... Your advice?
[EstherGreenwood]
Thanks for the advice. [: I'm actually trying to plan an outing type-thing in about a week. I was thinking that maybe he could bring some friends(if he wanted), because I am (only 3).(well I have to, due to parental ruling). BT.
I met this 29 years old corporate lawyer. Blunt, matured,intelligent, funny, decent. And it is a rare golden luck to land on someone like that, or so I thought...We met a week before he left the company I recently joined as an associate lawyer. He was nice to be around, and we went out thrice with a groupof friends and it was such a good feeling that I wanted it more, so I said, "Yes" when he said that he wanted it take it to the next level the day he left the city for his job in another city.And that is where I landed myself in a soup with something more than I can handle, the mind of a matured,experienced 29 years old contract lawyer. To make it worse, he is in a different city, and I dont know how to handle his demands of having a phone sex or cam-on-cam thing. Im 22, a devout, inexperienced christian and whatever it is, I like this man. The man that I know in person and the man in the internet n phone is a totally different person. It has been just three weeks that we've known each other. I dont want to lose him, but I feel I cant deliver what he wants from me. I have already told him what I feel and he assured me that he loves me!! How can anyone love a person he barely knows in 3 weeks!!! A part of me feel somehow that I wont meet a good man like him and that I should play along, despite being uncomfortable. Im discouraged and feel that its pointless to be alone, fighting to remain pure and chaste. I am in Delhi, surrounded by total strangers with majority of the population a Hindu, different language, customs, etc. I feel alone, confused and scared. Please help me. Is there any way to make it work with this man, or shall I leave him before I ruin myself?
" I don't think that a girl can say they are truly a lesbian(or bisexual) until they are with a girl sexually and they find out that is who they are." So are you saying therefore a girl can not say that they are truly straight until they are with a boy sexually?? This young woman doesn't mention how old she is, but I'll assume a very young teen. I think it makes it easier to understand that sexuality is a spectrum, with every shade in between gay and straight and bi right in the middle. I also think you'll find very few at one extreme end or the other. That said, the teen years can be very confusing, exploration with partners of the same sex is not unusual, but having an experience doesn't mean you have to stick a label on yourself. Sexuality is about who you are attracted to, who makes you turn your head to watch them walk by, who gives you butterflies and who makes you sexually aroused. I'm a femme lesbian and I'm really only attracted to butch type lesbians, not all women turn me on. Some feminine men attract me, but they're usually gay themselves. So I'm probably somewhere on the spectrum between gay and bi, but closer to gay. But I'm 46 and I've had many years to reflect on this topic and frankly I was in my 30's before I stopped going through the motions of what I was supposed to do and woke up to the fact that I'm a lesbian. I guess my point is, don't worry about sticking labels on yourself at this point in your life. Date who you want to and if that's a guy, OK, or if that's a girl, OK. Don't paint yourself into a corner. [Alisa]
I think it's very important to remember that good lube, whether it is natural through arousal or from a tube or bottle can make all the difference.
I think many young men haven’t learned that foreplay is the key to natural lube and try to skip it. Young women are so nervous they don’t think about letting themselves go and really enjoying what they are experiencing and also advocating for themselves that they aren’t quite “ready”, which means aroused.Get wet first!! And that’s hard to do if you’re all tense and nervous. Condoms can also contribute to the need for a good lube.
My first time, oh so many years ago, when I was almost 17, was quite good, but I had been in a long term (1 year) relationship with my BF and I think my hymen had been long gone from masturbation.I never have trouble getting aroused, but I’m very in tune to what is happening with my body and most importantly there was attraction.
If you aren’t attracted or have that tingly feeling with the person you’re with, it’s going to be hard to get aroused. What “turns you on”, means what makes you aroused, what makes you wet, what makes your heart flutter and what makes your toes curl. All those expressions mean your body is making it’s own lube to make it pleasurable for you. For women it usually means you have made an emotional connection with the person you’re with, but not always. Sometimes the person is just really attractive!If you aren’t ready, then don’t force it, I think this is where most of the pain comes from.
I have great respect for you--both for your effort to provide a much needed service to the rest of us and also for your insightful understanding of and consideration of human emotion. You are the very model of tact.[NightListener]
Again, LOVE your diary. I agree that you should wait for the right moment. My first time I was 18 and with a guy I was in love with. It hurt when he first entered me, but afterwords it didn't, it was incredibly pleasurable.
4 years later (we've been broken up for 3), we talk again and he tells me how happy he is about our first time together. (He was also a virgin). He tells me that he's so glad he has such a great memory of his first time because he's come to realize, a lot of people don't. That made me feel great, I've always thought that about our first time, but I figured since he's had sex with more women that he wouldn't feel the same. He does, and it made me feel really good because it was incredibly special for me.
To this day it still hurts when I have sex, just the initial entering part. Could be because I don't have sex that often and I am tight, but I use lube to help ease the pain...its a good pain though, I like it.
My situation is similar to that of a girl who commented you a while back.I think her username was hazeleyesaregreat, or something of that nature.
My boyfriend and I had sex at the beginning of June, and I missed my period for June (my period comes at the end of the month).My mom is convinced I’m pregnant.I was too, until I went to some websites that have mostly changed my mind, but I spent the whole month of June worrying.I haven’t taken a test so I’m still not sure, but based on the information I read online, I’m a lot less scared.We didn’t have sex long enough for him to cum and I’ve explained that to my mom.
I reminded her that being stressed out (which I have been for numerous reasons for most of this month, and stress is uncommon for me) and change in schedules (I’m out of school, so my body has had to get used to completely different eating and sleeping patterns that had been mostly the same since the beginning of August) can cause a missed period, but she told me that only people who regularly skip periods miss them for that reason.I have never missed a period before this.I really don’t know how true her statement is, because I have never heard that before, and I’m a teenage girl who just spent four years in high school around a lot of sexually active people.
She also told me what I believe are the wrong dates for ovulation.She told me the dates when I’m most at risk for being pregnant are ten days after my period begins, plus and minus three, which is the time frame I fell into. Before she told me that, I’d thought a girl was most fertile two weeks after her period begins, which doesn’t apply to me.I realize there is a chance of being pregnant no matter when a person has sex, but I’m truly sure no sperm got inside me.When I went online and looked it up, I found information that corresponded with my original thought.
My mom doesn’t believe me about any of the previous information.I told her if she didn’t believe me to go look online for herself, but she says I am fooling myself and that she “won’t go down that road with me.”She also mentioned that it’s unlikely that I’d get pregnant if my boyfriend didn’t cum inside me, but she still is positive I’m pregnant.
I don’t feel nauseated in the morning. My breasts aren’t sore, nor have my areolas changed their appearance. I don’t feel fatigued at random.I don’t have weird cravings. But my mom’s confidence that I am pregnant is disconcerting.
Basically what I am asking is if I am right, or if she is.I don’t expect you to be able to tell me if I’m pregnant or not because you obviously can’t.But I know you can clear up the whole problem with the missed period and the ovulation thing.
thankss so much it def does..and i have been playing soccer for 10 years and i go horseback riding an cycling alott so maybe that will help a little haha..but yeah im def gonna wait for a good guy an not jsut some random guy because thee good guy will lvoe me and know to listen when i say slow down or somethingg..okay well thankss so much again!!![sodapop4]
okay so i have an entryy thats titled virgin or not?? and yeah its basically about the pain the first time u do it. Most my frieds say it hurt ALOT the first and second times but one or two of them said it didnt really hurt them? so does it or does it not! lol[sodapop4]
you can get emergency contraceptive at pharmacies without a doctors notices....for ages 18 and older...you only need a prescription when you are younger than 17...
you can get emergency contraceptive at pharmacies without a doctors notices....for ages 18 and older...you only need a prescription when you are younger than 17...
I agree women can rape men in a few ways. She could tie him up and anally rape him with different objects or slip him some Viagra in his drink/food and tie him up and rape him that way.
[BehindSmile21]
Your name was dropped in my diary but a friend/reader of yours, Nightlistener--GREAT GUY atleast from what I've experienced with him--I'll be dropping in a time or two to what type of sexual advice you'll have for a guy like me, considering what I've just gone through.
Ok, I have a question for you. It's a question that can definitely be debated.
Can a woman really rape a man? Say, for instance, a man is sleeping and a woman gets on top of him and 'rides' him. She did not ask for his consent to engage in intercourse with him, but he ends up waking up and has an erection. And he tells her that he does not want to have sex. Isn't it still rape, because she did not seek his consent and he said 'no'? I mean, arousal is not consent.
P.S. I was reading one of your past diary entries on virginity. To me, virginity means not engaging in sex of the following forms: oral sex, anal sex, or vaginal intercourse.
thankyou so much for the advice and you are 100 percent correct. I know whats going on it's just hard for me to admit to myself I guess. I really appreciate the time you took to leave a comment on my diary. I guess I should follow my insticts on this one as well as yours. Thankyou again!!!! LoveBuzz
Thanks for your comment! I am happy I could make you laugh and put you at ease as you do by solving people's problems....You remind me of my days in school and college where I used to cousel friends on ignorance and misconceptions of Sex.
Although it's rather odd that I'd ask this question when I havn't actually had sex yet. But how would you get Emergency Birth Control without your parents knowing? Could you get if from a Pharmacy?
I have a question about Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. About 5 months ago now, I went to the doctor due to missing periods for 3 months straight. Had blood test & ultrasound done... ultrasound didn't show up any cysts, but my blood test result (of 2 particular hormones) was smack bang on the borderline ratio of diagnosis (3, I think?) I was told that he couldn't officially diagnose me as having PCOS, but that I probably had a susceptibility to it... or something like that. (It was a bit confusing, honestly. I'm not sure if he was telling me I have it but it's not active; I don't have it yet but I will definitely get it at some stage in the future; or I may or may not get it...)
Anyways... one of the symptoms of PCOS is weight gain. One of the suggestions I was given to... prevent it's arrival, or lessen the severity (not sure which) was to keep a steady weight (as in, if I weighed much more than what I did I should try to lose some). About the only follow-up of the doctoring was to put me on the pill (to see if that would regulate/return my period) ... one of the possible side-effects of which is gaining weight.
Now my question is... I have since put on weight (enough to be noticable). How do I know whether this is a result of life circumstances; the pill; or the PCOS?
And also... is there more follow-up I should be doing... does it matter whether I'm diagnosed or not? (Am not currently trying to get pregnant, so that's not an issue yet.)
Sorry it's so long... I have a tendency to over-explain, and I wasn't sure how much info was necessary. Feel free to chop it up if you answer :)
i was just reading the entry and i wondered what r the chances of u actually getting pregnant when a condom does slip off and there is cum in it![iPray4Rain]
I recently had an inccedent with a condom coming off during sex. neither of us realized it had happened. I took the morning after pill the next day, I was just wondering how effective the morning after pill is?
thank u for responding to my last question, it helpped me alot. i have another question nfor you if you dont mind.
after i was raped, i started to bleed. and i know its not my period because im off it and the blood is a different consistancy. ive been bleeding since and im worried that something is wrong. ive been bleeding for almost three weeks not i belive and i dont know what to do about it.
A friend of mine recently told me that she gets a lot of spit in her mouth when she has sex and/or when her boyfriend is pleasuring her. She doesn't know what that means and neither do I. Both of us would like to know. [xprettyxxpoisonx]
Technically this would constitute as rape. An individual can withdrawl consent at any time...once "no" or "stop" has been added to the equation it constitutes as rape. People often get confused about these things especially with spouse rape..because they think because they're married they can "do what they want". The public does need to be better educated about these things.
[Burp_a_Saurus]
As a man and someone that has been told to "not kill him" I am telling you this IS rape there is no doubt about it. none at all. This needs to be taken to the police, charges need to be filled and the sh*t head needs to be in prison. It will happen to someone else if he's not off the streets.[masweet1]
Hey this is actually two questions. Firstly, I had sex with my boyfriend at the beginning of May, for the first five minuets of it we didnt use a condom, but he wasnt even close to blowing (he takes agers to cum) anyways, before hand I sucked him off (sorry for the graphic language) and he blew, anyways after that he went to the bathroom and I know peeing can maybe cause sperm to die, but I'm not sure if he actually pee'd or not. Anyways we had sex straight after. Can I still get pregnant? I havnt had a test yet and I know I should, I just need some information.
Secondly, I haven't had my period for two months. I know deffinatly I wasn't pregnant last month because this month was the first time I had sex, anyways I still don't have my period and I'm worried. Is there anything wrong with me? What's causing this? I'v never skipped a period this long.
so for like a month ive been "seeing" this boy. we used to date like when we i was 14 and he was 16 or something ike that and we just recently started "seeing" eachotehr again. well last saturday, he wantd to have sex and so we did, but than he started to hurt me, made me bleed and i told him to stop. well he didnt, he just did it harder. i started crying an trying to get him off but he wouldnt get off me. he just kept going ( and he didnt wear a condom which is another big thing ). in the beginning of this night, i consented, but when i said stop and he didnt, does that mean he raped me? i mean i know what rape is and ive experienced rape where there was no consent on my part at all, and this felt like rape. {this is an excerpt from my diary, could u plese help me, is this rape?}[raspberrycola]
Um.. I wanna make my boyfriend horny over the phone because it's kinda funny, so could you give me a little help with what I can/should say please thanks.
Ok sorry I didn't have the time to read back in your entries but I had a question regarding lube. Now I have been asking my friends who are sexually active (I'm still a virgin) about using lube etc...and nobody seems to have used it. What pisses me off is that I get sh*t for even mentioning the idea, my whole premise for getting lube is to make the first time more comfortable. I have lost my cherry from bike riding and I have had some oral/finger penetration, but not sex. Last time I was getting the finger penetration I bled, and the friction got to the point where it hurt. Not sure if that was because of the fingernail or what..but I just want to be comfortable having sex..and want to last awhile without getting sore. I have told my BF this and he's a little confused as to why I "need/want" it(not to mention he's larger than average)...and everyone else tells me I'm nuts and that I won't need it. But judging from my past experiences I believe it would be benificial..and what does it hurt? So despite others making fun of me, I need to know how much lube to use..and how/where to apply it. It never says on the bottle, and God forbid I can find someone else who uses lube for vaginal sex. This would be great to know, I am running out of places to find info on this subject. Please let me know if you have any other info related to this subject. I horribly clueless in some areas still...nomatter how much I ask friends.
[Burp_a_Saurus]
I"m not a teen so for me unpretected sex (regarding on doing such myself) it's not a big issue. Maybe if I was dealing with it and a teen friend, yes, I'll be talking them out of it. Anyway, I have this huge question to ask. Besides missed periods, nausea, and cravings, what do you say is the very first sign of pregnancy? And I mean the very first sign. Lately, I can't drink certain things without getting nauseous and it's been about 5 days since I've had sex with my boyfriend while I was ovulating. I just need a heads up in case I truly am pregnant at the moment.
hiii SA! :) i was wondering, i sleep on my stomach and have since..well forever! im 14 and dont have the chest size i want.. im pretty small in the chest area.. do u think this is whats stopping my growth? sleeping on my stomach?
Thank you so much for your comment, and the great advice. I am glad that someone sees what I see, and sees also, the completely messed up big picture of this situation. I have to tell you, though, that something happened today, and this marriage thing has gotten worse. I am writing about it today. You wont believe it... be sure and read, and tell me what you think. Thanks again
-superspeller[superspeller]
I actually have a question. I don't know why, I'm just really confused. I've been watching videos on youtube about girls making out and stuff like that. I'm afraid my parents will find out and be really mad at me. It's not like i'm a bad kid or anything, i'm just curious. I didn't get my period this month and I'm really scared! Help me! Tell me if this is normal???[xjiwx331]
hey, thanks for the comment in my entry. I really don't think my feelings are because of my lack of experience. I think i don't have much experience because of the feelings i have when i'm about to do something.[LostInnocence]
Yes. I understand that I can't do all that's on my list in four years. And, I don't expect to do all of those things in that amount of time. I know that mastering all of those things in college will take years. I'm just not sure where to go. And, I would hate to throw away all but one talent. I love to use all of my talents to their full extent.
Hahaha, well, first of all, thank you for the advice, I'll probably end up taking most of it. But don't worry, this isn't a life-threatening illness, not for me anyway. Yeah, I got to enjoy the BS of chemo and a couple operations, but I ain't going anywhere![WindowtotheRain]
about the advice given on this, I would add that before you start looking for a boyfriend, you need to be happy with yourself, or no guy will ever make you happy. In other words, dont expect a guy to make you happy, make yourseld happy first. The guy will come in turn...people are more attractive when they are happy too, and are in a place where they can bring something to the relationship. So how about working on yourself, inside and out, whether its working out to get more in shape, getting more emotional support, perhaps seek professional therapy. Take care of yourself. Good luck :) [LucyFord]
lol yea well i broke up with him 2 go out with the most popularist guy in skool but then i broke it off with him cauz i like hiz friend dallas and he just told me 2-day that he likes meee!!yay!
I dont usually get mine until Wednesday or even thursday!! dont panic, if you have been taqking the pill properly your not pregnant! the pill just lightens your period so it may start later[humdinger]
on the pill i usually dont start untill the 4th day of placebo pills, and my P goes the last 3 days of the placebos. But my sis and friend said their cycles were totally out of wack the first couple months on the pill and didnt follow what they were supposed to at all. So i wouldnt worry too much yet, maybe give it another day, and then call your doc. [LucyFord]
taking a birth control pill will mess up your flow at first... sometimes it can take a month or two or just a few days before you start... there are hormonal changes going on in your body right now, so don't fear... if you don't get your period in the next couple of months you might want to get a pregnancy test [Zen2theEnd]
i just started taking the pill on march 9th which was a sunday, it is a 28 day pill, therefore i have been taking the placebo pills since Sunday, well it is now tuesday and i have not started my period yet. i was just wondering why i wouldn't have started yet? should i start just anytime during the placebo pills or should i have started on the first day of them? i am very confused. any information would be helpful. thank you
i just started taking the pill on march 9th which was a sunday, it is a 28 day pill, therefore i have been taking the placebo pills since Sunday, well it is now tuesday and i have not started my period yet. i was just wondering why i wouldn't have started yet? should i start just anytime during the placebo pills or should i have started on the first day of them? i am very confused. any information would be helpful. thank you
I was just wondering, but since MDD bans entries with erotic substance, why would they not ban the pictures of half naked teenage girls that are in the thinspo entries? To me that would violate two of their rules, firstly it's offensive to some people (as is the erotic things posted) and it's a form of child pornography since a lot of those girls aren't over eighteen. [thehelpfulone]
Sorry I had forgot to state that...yes I have been having sex...and I am married...Im not just some kid running around having unprotected sex...my husband and I usually are more careful...but the last time it happened spontaneously....our son was gone for the day :) I am not using any kind of BC, I am allergic to it...but we do normally use condoms....
[oubliette]
My question is why the hell are these kids running around not using condoms these days. They're not expensive, hell they're free in some places. Then these girls have the nerve to freak out when they're late. It's like, if you have unprotected sex, there's a possibility you might get pregnant. If you don't want to get pregnant, use something. Sheesh. Logic has been thrown out the windows these days.
[sarcastra]
My last period was in Jan...I think that it was the 20th. I took 4 pregnancy tests which have all come out neg. all a week apart and the last with morning urine. I did spot last month near the time that I would have had my period...and also this month near the time I should have had it. The last time I tested was the 19th of this month...I would think that a pregnancy would have shown up by now. But tonight while eating I did feel a little nauseated. I am a bit scared as I do not want any more children...Might you have some advice as to what this could be. I have a child and I dont really "feel" pregnant...and I have been under stress..and thought that the preg. test's neg. would have relaxed me...and it did...till this month went by and no period... Thanks
I don't agree with you on the disease vs. lifestyle. I think it starts as a lifestyle, and becomes a disorder, not a disease. Either way, they are goddamn annoying.[zeakez]
My period is supposed to be here by this week. Say it came early and I didn't noticed it (it happens since I have PCOS). My question is, say my period started while me and my boy where having sex and we didn't noticed until we turned the lights on. Can a pregnancy occur and cut the menstruation short? I know it's a weird and kind of nasty question but I just need to ask.
Hi. . . . I could use some, well, flirting advice, and a personal opinion on something I plan on doing.
First of all, the flirting advice. At the moment, I don't really look the way I wish I did. The chemotherapy I've gone knocked out my hair, and though it's growing back, it's still shorter than I'd like. My face is kind of pudgy, and though I'm losing weight, I still feel kind of heavy. Anyway, after I graduate, I'll be leaving my tiny school and going to a slightly larger community college. After that, it's off to Seattle. Previous to my illness, though, I was in a pretty long relationship. The point I guess I'm trying to get at is, I just don't know how to flirt. And I know a lot of inital attraction has to do with physical looks. How can I get any guy to look past this body that I really don't like and see the inside? And how to I even flirt in general?
Second of all: Is it wrong to kind of keep this chapter in my life (with histiocytosis, chemotherapy, depression, my mom's breast cancer, hard time in school, etc) kind of a secret for people, especially men, meeting me for the first time? I guess I'm just scared that if I mention it to a guy I'm interested in, he'll either run out of the room like his ass is on fire, or date me out of pity. I want guys to see past this hard time in my life, but I don't want to "lie" to him. Plus, there are scars on my body and in my life that might be hard to explain to him without giving him the full story. I guess what I'm asking is, is it right to kind of hide this large part of my past from someone I may want to date, and if it is, when would be the right time to tell them?
I hope I wasn't totally blathering in this question, and I hope even more that you can give me a personal opinion on the matter.
Please bare with me about the length, and if it isn't coherent. I was dating a guy, let's call him G, And we were together for over two years, When one night . . he suddenly broke-up with me Tuesday night. His reason was that there was nothing left between us, And he just wasn't happy with me anymore. It didn't make any sense to me, and came as a total surprise, Because that day at school, everything was fine, at least it seemed that way. Since we've been broken up, we've talked every day on the phone. And almost every time, he's told me that he loves me, and misses me. But Thursday, during lunch, he was with B and he was sitting on her lap. I know that she likes him, because I read a conversation she was having with someone, And it was very obvious to me. I asked him if he liked her too, and he said no. I trust him. He's a really sweet kid, and I'm sure it'd be easier for you to understand, And I talked about our relationship for the break-up, but I'd be going on for ages. I talked to my best friend L, and she said he'll come back, just because she knows what happened between us, and how he works. She thinks that I should just tell him he has to choose now, if he really loves me. But I don't think that's right. If he needs time, I'm willing to give it to him. But I'm kind of caught in the middle, sometimes I think he'll come back, sometimes I don't. He's giving me mixed feelings, and I've told him that it's not fair. I know we're better than this break-up, we went through almost everything. Do you have any advice to me, is there anything I should say to him? He told me to give him some time to himself, so he can think about us, And see if he wants to get back together. But I'm afraid that in the end he won't come back. Every day he tells me to call him again, so should I stop calling him? Would that give him the time he needs to think, and the time to miss me? My theory is, if he loves me as much as he says, he'll come back. And this is something I'm not going to get over, I love this boy more than anything in the world. You don't just throw over two years away like this. Please help me. :(
thz..alot.i told my bf exacly wat i said yesterday..he said exacly wat u said.soo,well..i guess hes az nobsessive az i thought he wazz,he said he went through the same situation...i asked him..how am i supposed 2 breath with no air?and he said..go where air is and let it out.
I have written into you before about this problem but the details have changed a bit. I am having pain during sex. Sometimes it get bad enough that it hurts to put in a tampon. Its like im tearing open. I have gotten a mirror and had a look and noticed kind of like a graze near the vaginal opening. Like a bit of skin had been grazed off and its sore to touch. Its not noticeable to look at but hurts to touch. The gynocologist cant see anything and wants to refer me to a sex specialist at a hospital to show me different techniques so as to reduce the pain, but i dont beliee different techniques are the problem or solution. Could you provide any insight on this situation or have you heard anything like this before? Any information would be greatly appreciated! Thanks.
if her have a virus scanner not problem to enter any site but if her hasnt u must load virus programme.Good luck sorry for my bad english but i am from turkey and i speak turkish[FULYA]
my opinion....maybe it's what she wants a guy to do for her cause I'm not bi or anything, I'm straight, but I also have that....but I don't feel physical attraction...and the stuff that lez or bi's do, my b/f doesn't and I know it feels great and I want it....so I figure it's what I want my b/f to do to me....just a thought[xCarex]
wow I see that you have a lot of questions to answer and I'm so sorry for adding to the list. You can take your time to answer mine.
Okay so I'm str8t but for the past year I have been having highly sexual dreams about me with other females and they get pretty intense. HOwever if I see a female I don't feel attracted to her...I may just think they're pretty or beautiful and get jealous lol but I don't know why I have these dreams which I happen to enjoy (a lot). I guess I just want to know what is your take on my dreams?[EmotionZrun2high]
I have a question i wanted to ask you. I get very curious and like to see pictures online of sex, cause its just very exciding, but im afraid to look up stuff online, because my mom would kill me if i got a virus on her computer. I was wondering if you knew of any sites that are OKAY to look at? Free, and ones that are safe from virus? I want to know of sites with sexual pictures, and sex stories, but very safe sites that are free. Please please reply. It would mean alot because i really want to look at some, and im afraid to, i don't want to get the computer ate up with viruses.
so u answered my question about the fwb thing and how i was starting to have feelings for him and you were right about everything... esp after i told him about it... anyhow... now i am confused because he has started to come back around... what does this mean... we havent even talked in 2 months... he has been here for the past 2 days now...
hi i have a question.
i have scheduled my first gyno appointment for march 10th
the problem is, i am almost positive i will have my period then. i originally set up the appointment to get on birth control, however one of my friends told me that my doctor will not give me birth control without a physical exam. and i know they can't perform the pap smear if your period is really heavy. so i was just wondering if my friend was right. will my dr. go ahead and give me birth control so that i can start it the following sunday after my period and then set me up a new appointment for the physical exam? or am i going to have to wait til the actual exam? because that is going to be very inconvenient. i have already waited 2 months for this appointment, and its going to suck to have to wait another month! any information would be greatly appreciated![xdiva1985x]
the question was merely the title of the entry. both the entry and the video answer the question posed by the title, so your comment tells me that you did not read the entry itself, which leads me to the assumption that you also did not watch the video.....
I have a male freind called SK. We met from online dating. However the terms were that we were going to be friends. SK keeps telling me to get a boyfriend so that I could release my stress through S*X. Yester-evening he repeated the same thing I told him that I was waiting for him. If I was to have S*X I would have it with him. He then tells me " What do you hope to get out of it" " One night stand, hit and run or a real relationship?" I couldn't answer the question... because although I didn't mind casual sex.. I don't want a real realtionship... he insisted on asking me what am going to get out of it... I couldn't give a definate answer... He even recommended that I should watch " Booty Call" Looking at the review on the Internet
I remember once SK asked me to give him condoms which I did. He told me he was going to use them on someone else... Combining these two incidents I felt so disgusted/ frustrated... with SK.. Like I cannot take it anymore.... I felt like he doesn't consider my feelings.
After reading this advise from SA.. it answered all my queries... about SK.. he is a guy, who loves two things SEX and FREEDOM... probably with many sex partners...
Hey, wow, thank you so much for the advice you gave me... I already knew all of that, but everyday I was beggining to think I was just a silly little girl that wanted a perfect little fantasy world... Last night he called me and we talked things over, we are still together, but to be honest, I dont really know if I want him back in my life...again... Its like he builds me up just to tear me down the next day... [Nillababes]
thank you so much. that helped me a lot. i talked to my boyfriend about it, and we are going to order one of those tests. thank you so much. i wouldn't have even known there was such a thing, that will save us a ton of money too. thanks again![xdiva1985x]
hey i have a really important question
this may sound weird but here goes
i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we are planning on getting married
well here recently we have been talking about how many kids we would have and stuff, you know the usual. well he told me that when he was about two years old he had surgery. apparently, his balls were "floating" and wouldn't stay in their sac or something... and so he had to have surgery to sew them down to stay in place. and the doctor at the time told him that he may or may not be able to have kids, but he said more than likely he would be able to. everything down there works right you know lol but
my queston is, have you ever herad of this and i was wondering what the possibility is that he will be able to have kids? because we have kind of started to worry about it. so if you could help me out here, i would really appreciate it! thank you![xdiva1985x]
I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks but he refuses to talk much about his home, family and his childhood. I only know he lives with his parents and siblings now but not where he lives and he doesn't want to discuss his childhood, in fact I don't even know where he was born. I find this quite strange, so I asked other classmates but they know no more than me, they all say he's just secretive. So I've told my family but they have drastic opinions. My father says that the guy probably has family troubles and doesn't want others to know about and get involved and that I shouldn't try to get involved his sensitive family issues, but that if he and I were to get serious about our relationship someday, he will open up. My mother is worried that he and his family is up to no good and talks non stop about how dangerous it would be to get involved and I could be some kind of victim so I should just get away from him immediately, but I'm not surprised at all that she said this, she always worries about everything and gives me lectures daily. So, I'm not sure what to do, or is it just better to be safe anyway, but then if it's just simply family troubles, it would just be a big mistake and I would feel bad.[jua]
um yeah...this isn't me, I'm asking this for a friend.
She is 12 years old and pregant with her 2nd child...her first one is 4. She is really really sick but her boyfriend keeps making her have sex with him. Can you pleez help? [littleprincesslover1]
-Wyatt
me thanks!
I just gotta get a camera.
with SK.. Like I cannot take it anymore.... I felt like he doesn't consider my feelings. 